Urban Yukon Meetup in December

Even if it’s only a few of you…I can’t wait. The internet is pretty phenomenal , but it has yet to replace face-to-face, real human interaction.

I really am in town for just under a week-much to my parent’s dismay. But–I really didn’t know what my schedule was going to be like. So, I opted for a conservative number.

Usually–when I come home, I like to stay for a bit of time. The last few years, it’s been for three weeks at least. And, right now, I’m working on a plan where I can come home to stay for a few months at a time. But–I’ll still have to work out the details. At least I know what I want to do.

Regardless, in 2005, it was my parent’s 40th anniversary and my sister, her husband, my niece, and myself climbed the Chilkoot (again). I have definitely decided I have to search new horizons for my hiking excursions. That was my 7th time. I really wanted to hike the Kaskawulsh Glacier, but my sister wanted to do the Chilkoot for posterity.

Last year, I came home at Christmas. It was cold for a bit, but then it warmed up for the duration of my stay. I managed to ski or walk everyday. I wound up meeting up with a friend from school — Tania Ordish and her family — and going for a ski. I also met up with my good friend Yvonne Chan. We went tobbagganing and later in the holiday, I learned how to play Majhong and met Pierre.

Regardless, I always have oodles of fun with my parents. This year, my sister Nat and her family are coming home for Christmas too. We should have a good laugh. We’ll probably even clear the kitchen, play our traditional Christmas album (I have to find the pics to go along with that), and dance around to my Dad’s vinyl collection.

I can’t wait guys. It will be good to meet you and put faces and and personalities to your blogs.

Foie Gras

Somebody recently wrote and told me he and an his familial entourage are taking a tour of Napa Valley. He forwarded me their itinerary and asked if I knew anything about the wineries on the list:

So, even though I know nothing about these wineries nor the wines, I wrote a long and convoluted email back.

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Hhmmm….

Carneros is an appellation that is known for their Chardonays and Pinots. I’m guessing they capitalize on the hot days and cool breezes…but I don’t know if they get the cool breezes from the Bay or from the Petaluma Gap.

…quick google search says from San Pablo Bay.

I know about the Carneros Inn because the lady at PlumpJack Cafe wanted me to send Bush-Field there. …now a google search indicates that the Carneros Inn is part of the PlumpJack family and probably resides in the Carneros appellation…and has nothing what-so-ever to do with Domaine Carneros except the proximity. So–you’re going to have to let me know what you think. Judging by their website, you’ll be suitably impressed.

Rubicon…that’s the sister winery (or parent winery?) to Rosso & Bianco Winery. Rubicon is the original FFC (Francis Ford Coppola). My little intern–Cindy–has just spent the last three months at Rosso & Bianco. She toured Rubicon in late August for a day. She says it’s much nicer than Rosso & Bianco .. except Rosso & Bianco is pretty damn nice (see: An Afternoon at Rosso & Bianco Winery).

Oh. Side note—Francis Ford Coppola apparently started a community concert band in St. Helena. He plays the tuba.

Other than that…I know nothing about their wine. I do know, however, that I don’t like the new Rosso & Bianco label….it doesn’t pop. The label is red and sits on a red bottle. Nothing to make it stand out on the shelf.

From left: Evan, Virginia, Marty, Cindy, SandyI have attached a picture of the winemakers from Rosso & Bianco winery in my back yard. We had them over for dinner! Cindy (my housemate until this Saturday. I don’t know what I’m going to do without her because she’s made a huge difference in my life–but I digress yet again). Cindy has been the winery intern at Rosso & Bianco for the past three months. About a month ago, she made an evening of French cuisine local to her region in France. She invited her colleagues. That was a funny story.

She’d brought over some homemade preserves. Her family are farmers–so everything is grown and preserved right on the farm. One thing she’d brought over was her Mum’s foie gras.

Marty, Cindy, SandyEverybody was tasting a bit of this and a bit of that and somebody asked her how she made the foie gras. (Keep in mind, that when she arrived, she spoke in broken English–she now speaks in less broken English–but she has greatly improved).

She said:

At my parents, we have ducks.
In the spring, we start to feed them a lot of mais…What is mais?
Corn–we piped up.
Ok. So. We feed them corn. A LOT of corn. Maybe three of those bowls a day. She pointed to a dish on the table.
Ok. We said. So you feed them a lot of corn.
Yes. She continued: They eat a lot of corn for two or three months then…bup! She motioned with her hands like she was cutting off their heads. Bup! We harvest them.
What? We exclaimed. That’s it? You harvest them?
Yes. She nodded her head. We harvest them. We kill them and take their liver…and…Voila! Foie gras.
Don’t you do something to their livers? You know, before we eat it? We asked.
No. She shook her head. Harvest the liver. Put it in the jar. Cover it with oil and Voila! Foie Gras.

Nobody ate the rest of the foie gras. We just let it sit on the table while we ate the gratin and salads and prunes—even though they were harvested in much the same fashion.

So, now I’m laughing at my ADD. I’m sorry. But it was a funny story. It’s only one of many I have to put on my blog about my time with Cindy. But, now I’ve written it. I think I’ll post it.

Regardless. If you’re up as far as Calistoga, you might as well dine in Healdsburg. There are some pretty nice places to eat here. I have to make sure I go to Cyrus before I leave. When it’s in your own back yard, there is certainly no excuse.

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So. That’s it. That’s the story about how I know nothing about Domaine Carneros and Rubicon Wineries. But, I do know a little bit more about Foie Gras.

Butts and Buildings in San Diego

Not much to report on this visit. We were on a budget and other than my friend Alan, we didn’t have transportation. We spent time at the zoo though–which was quite impressive. I think all the animals were tired of people and of being on display. Almost every animal had their backs towards us and were just hanging out doing their business.

I couldn’t help myself. I had to get some shots of the big butts!


Hippo Butt

Elephant Butt

Rhino Butt

The zoo visit was on Sunday. On Monday, Cindy and I walked up to Balboa Park just to have a look and see what was there. I was impressed with the architecture of the buildings. Here are my few good shots of the buildings in (or near) Balboa Park.

Here is a link to the San Diego pics on Cindy’s blog. She was able to hook up with her good friend Amadine despite a communication gap between devices that speak French and those that speak English! Cindy and Amadine habe been friends since they were two!. Amadine is studying at San Diego State for the next few years.

Here is a link to Alan’s pics from the zoo. And, here is a link to his blog that he just started: oneneverends.blogspot.com. I have a comment on his Dial entry, but I want to wait until I get my new Photoshop software. ETA: three weeks!

Here is a link to my album of the trip.

Tragically Hip Tragedy

I just went to a Tragically Hip concert in San Fran. They were playing at the Warfield on Wednesday night. I was wary before I left that I wouldn’t enjoy it and now, I just wish I’d listened to myself.

For those who don’t know, The Hip are Canada’s largest rock band. You can attend any one of their concerts with 50 thousand or more of your closest friends. However, they haven’t quite made the grade here in the US. (Or, they haven’t sold out to the American market–depends on how you look at it). Maybe too though, it’s because their lyrics often contain cultural and historical references that Americans just wouldn’t understand.

I drove the 45 minutes to the Golden Gate Bridge and spent another 45 minutes or so trying to find parking. I thought I’d meetup with a few other Canadians and it would be good to step out of my comfort zone. Get out. Meet new people–people who understand the “U” in colour and neighbour and don’t ask you to repeat words like “out” and “house”. And there are no bits and bytes lost in translation…but I digress.

We met at the Olive. Which–from the web pics, seemed like a decent sort of place to meet people whom you’ve never met before. What I didn’t know, was that this particular place was in a dodgy bit of the city.

Anyway. I drove around a bit and found parking–right on Olive Street. Olive Street connects Polk to Larkin. It was a dingy little street, but I was happy to find parking. I tossed a few things in the backseat, jumped out, and hurried up the street. It was now just past 7h30 and I didn’t want to miss the group. We’d agreed to meet just after 6h00. As I was hurrying away, I used my remote to lock the doors. I always double-click and listen for the happy beep. “Beep. Beep, I’m locked”. Very satisfying.

Regardless, I know I locked my car.

I ducked into the bar and tried to assess who were Canadians. They said they were going to be wearing jerseys from Queens. (Queens University–in Kingston–where the Tragically Hip originated). I didn’t know what such a jersey looked like however, and I just scanned for people who looked like they were Canadian. Mark piped up when he saw me and said: Looks like you’re looking for some Canadians.

Relieved, I just laughed and joined their table. It was interesting just meeting a whole bunch of expats all at once.

What part of Canada are you from? The Yukon? No. Wow. You are the first person from the Yukon I’ve ever met. What do they call people from the Yukon? Yukon-ites?

Yukonian I correct.

What are you doing here? They ask. In the Bay Area?

I got lost. I tell them. I got lost.

Here. Sit down. Have a drink.
What do people drink in the Yukon?

Yukon Jack. I grin. Yukon Jack.

How long have you been here?

Since 2001.

No..Really? You want to go back to Canada? Why?

Long story. I don’t know where I would start.

Hmm–they said. There’s got to be more to that story.

There is but I don’t elaborate. I just ask where they are from and what they are doing in the Bay Area.

I’m pleased to report, I met quite a few different people. A consultant to lawyers, a project manager in a software company, an engineer??? for a GPS company, an inventory manager for the GAP. Quite an eclectic group. Good people. All good people of course.

We chit-chatted for a bit. Two girls finished their drinks and we headed down to the concert in groups. I left with the consultant and the project manager. We were going to catch a cab, but turned out we arrived at the Warfield before we found a cabbie who was free.

I was worried that I wouldn’t get in as I’d forgotten to print my ticket from the email. That was the first sign of the tragic evening–just the simple fact I’d forgotten to print the ticket. (I just read today–however, that the airline industry is going to text bar codes to mobile phones as proof of purchase. Wouldn’t that be cool?. Just show up in some line somewhere and show a bar code from your cell phone screen…but I digress…yet again).

They were able to find my proof of purchase with my credit card and some ID–so it wasn’t difficult at all. We arrived between the opening act and The Hip themselves. They were setting up and people started moving into the hall. We moved right down to the general admission area. Like the rest of Canadians-who-live-in-the-States, we were just ecstatic to be-like-five people in front of Gord Downie. (And–like–I say that with an American accent–like, you know).

In summary, here is what happened the rest of the night:

Loud music.
Very loud music.
Was ready to leave after about an hour…too much stuff I’d already seen and not enough of anything new.
Gord Downie was freakishly thin.
He is quite the performer though, but I–personally–am not terribly impressed with his spastic dancing and hacky-sac antics with the mic.
Rob Baker still had long hair.

That’s not to say I don’t like their music. I do. I just think they haven’t changed much since the 20th Century. Maybe, if you’re that famous, you don’t have to, but I don’t know why you wouldn’t want to.

Mark convinced me I should stick around for the encore and I did. And they played a few more songs. And I’m glad I stuck around except, I was more than ready to leave.

We all finally left and walked back to our cars parked on Olive Street.

SOMEBODY HAD SMASHED MY PASSENGER WINDOW, rummaged through the glove compartment, and stolen what obvious valuables were in the front seat: mp3 player, bluetooth ear piece, keys, and a few other bits and bytes.

UGH. That’s it. Not only was I too tired and probably–maybe–too old to enjoy the concert, somebody broke into my car. Now, the entire undesirable night cost:

  • $50 ticket to the concert.
  • Gas to and from the city.
  • $5.00 cover charge just to get into the city.
  • $15.00 for two drinks
  • $250 for the deductible to fix the car window
  • ~$500 dollars to replace the stolen property
  • Time spent sorting things out with the insurance agency and the glass repair guy

Again. UGH. It’s not as if I can afford the extra costs right now either. I’m chiding myself for being so stupid and leaving visible property in the front seat (and therefore very visible) part of my car.

More UGH.

Expensive night out and I didn’t have much fun. Next time–if I ever get the urge to go to a concert, I’m just going to stay at home and turn up my favourite tunes on my own sound system and invite my co-Canadians for an evening of CanCon and our own cultural stories.

Love Letters

I have had some turmoil in my life over the last few years. I have been between jobs, between contracts, between cities, between countries, between houses, between relationships—well, I’ve just been between. When I moved into my current house, I put off unpacking all the boxes and cartons. I didn’t want to unpack and have to sort through things and have to find places for stuff that I may end up moving in a few months or so. I’d been between so many things, that I thought this was another stop between moves.

However, I’m tired of looking at boxes and cartons. I’d rather look at my books and photographs and sort out if I really need all of those sweaters and old shoes and every birthday card my parents have ever given me. So recently, I’ve been sorting out (and through) things. Some things have been harder than others: divorcing, moving, renovating, refinancing. But other things—like sorting through the box that contains my memorable life experiences—those things have been an incredible pleasure. Among the pictures and birthday cards and collection of weird trinkets that only mean something to me, I found a stack of letters that a former boyfriend had written me over 15 years ago.

We had met in early February in 1992. In France. We were both on our year abroad. I was from a small town in Northern Canada. He was from Scotland. I don’t think I understood a word he said for the first few weeks (and I might even venture to say‚ months) that we were interested in one another.

One afternoon, I found this letter under the door to my room in the residence where I stayed. Granted, I believe I had walked out to his residence earlier that day. I had walked approximately five kilometeres just to knock on his door and ask—inwardly cringe—if he would “go out with me”.

That was me. Rather–that was me–then. I guess when I see something I like, I just say so. I just lay it all out there (my heart that is—or was). Later in life, I realize I’m not so generous with my heart anymore. I have been hurt. I have caused pain. I have been in places I never want to be again. I told somebody once that I felt raw. Sushi-raw, “…like all of my skin had been peeled off, my heart had been ripped out, and trampled on, and left to turn rancid under the California sun.” (Kinda dramatic, I know, but when you’re going through it, it’s better just to be poetic and get through it. And then, it’s over and done.) Another friend would say: “The only way out is through. Darlin’. The only way out is through.” But now, I digress.

I had a lot of fun that time in France. I learned about myself. I learned personal identity. I learned national identity. When you have to explain yourself and your language and your country in another language, you learn a lot. I learned how to speak French–and I returned to Canada with a heavy Scottish brogue. And my boyfriend– well my boyfriend waited until the day after I left France to send me this letter when he finally said: “I love you.” Or–at least he said: “I think I do.”

Regardless, he finally said IT. He said he didn’t want to think about IT or maybe he hadn’t found the courage to think about it–so he never thought about IT, and therefore–he never said IT. But I guess eventually he did think about IT. And he wrote IT in a letter. And I still have that letter. I just found that letter in a box of all my memorable life experiences.

And this is the letter that inspired me to create this website to find out, collect, and share how other people say IT. How other people say: “I love you”.

That’s about it right now. I don’t know how to encourage people to say it–or when they do, to send it in, but I guess I’ll start finding out.

But in the meantime, I highly recommend that when you can–if you can–to sit back later in your life when you are finished being between things and you are finally through it all and sort through your box of memorable life experiences and re-read your collection of love letters.

Somebody or Something is using my domain name for SPAM….

I feel so violated. As if I would do something like that. I’m researching how to make it stop, but until then, if you don’t know me, I’m not spamming you–some weird internet pornbot is.